let me save us some time. we will meet. sparks will fly. we will call it love. sooner or later we will find ourselves entangled, between a set of sheets. yours or mine – that part isn’t very important. but in the morning you’ll feel like a king and i’ll feel like a pile of […]

The complexities of consent that western societies are experiencing today can easily be attributed to the feminist agenda which is so emotionally driven to abolish “misogyny” that it is often blind to logic.  Upon deeper examination of gender and consent we can see that social issues like the #MeToo movement highlight errors in modern ways […]

It has escalated. And as a fellow human being, I care about you and want you to understand this. Everything. I had an experience recently which brought my entire past to the surface, emotionally. It made me realize the immensity of things that I need to stuff down every day in order to function normally. And […]

earlier in 2018 i came to the conclusion that i was no longer in pursuit of the meaning of life or the knowledge of how to achieve happiness. i had reached a point where i felt as though i had finally understood everything. i also maintain this position. i have nothing else to learn. any […]

I’m not crazy. My reality is just different than yours. – The Cheshire Cat, Alice in Wonderland

I had a recent conversation with my mom on the phone. It was emotional. We argued. At the end I was in tears. I was distressed because she had this pessimistic way about her which affected me very negatively. It made me feel as though something that I told her about, something harmless that I […]

We are taught that the stress response is unwarranted when our brain perceives things in our environment which are not a real threat to safety. It happens when we’re in a traffic jam, struggling with tight finances, and when we have a major test coming up. These things won’t kill us and therefore the stress […]

I have several books and blog posts in the making right now but for weeks I haven’t been able to bring myself to write a single word let alone share any of them. I get fleeting ideas for good topics here and there, but I can’t retain enough focus to properly compose anything. In fact […]

As a self-proclaimed perfectionist, I identify all too well with the struggle to discern which are truly the best ways to conduct oneself and live a good life.  Us perfectionists do it for a valid reason – we know that the best things in life are the those which make us feel happy and fulfilled. […]